In Love retraction

Ok, not really a retraction LOL... BUT my husband needs to lighten up! Tired of it being an issue but he has zero patience with C. Pierre came over last night and he and C started wrestling around in the living room (playing obviously) and the next thing I know is O is yelling and cussing at C to get to his room. I am like "what the hell"?? I don't really know how to handle it. I feel sorry for C because as annoying as he can sometimes be, he tries so hard to impress O and O just craps on his head 24/7. But if I bring it up and try to talk to O we end up fighting... I don't know what to do.